Great points too Vicki.....Ariande54 you have no need to apologize to me, I can dish it out and I can take it as well. Glad you're back feeling better and posting again.....Now ladies, we all do what we feel is right at the time and we all make mistakes, but we must grow and mature from these mistakes and not wallow in them. I find it a sad situation when we as a nation have to turn to computers or phone sex or dating services to meet someone to love, someone to love us. They say things get better as time goes by but this to me is the biggest of backward steps. What happens next? Throw a thousand names into a large hat, pick one and live with it? God help us all!!!! [Roll Eyes] [Eek!]