How about raised catholic...now lutheran. I knew my husband wasn't going to become catholic but the realization of not worshiping together didn't hit until the children were little. We decided to go "church shopping" and it's the best move we ever made. We found a small lutheran church that we both felt comfortable with and that valued children second to God. Our faith journey as a family is more meaningful than I ever hoped for. My parents were very supportive because isn't the fact that we are all going to church and worshiping the same God most important?