DH has always said this after his kids are gone, then the grand kids come along. He says "We need to get used to being last place now". His says the phone does not ring enough for him!

So, since I have no kids, for me it's the friends who become grandmothers. Three years ago I was reconnected with my best, childhood friend...after 23 years. It was wonderful! NOW? She's a new grandmother and I don't even hear from her. No pics..nothing.

So, what to do? Nothing? Something? Stay back and let her be?

HELP!!