You're on the right track Thistle with what you said about enjoying this stage of your life and thats half the battle. Hot is hot no matter the cause and you'll notice its a stupid man trying to cut you up or scare you about needing drugs. I personally like the Queens idea. Snip and plunge, bet that would change his one sided attitude. This is the best part of your life, right now and it'll only get better. If I weren't such a lady I might say something, awh F_ _ K the A_ _Hole. Women rule..... [Big Grin]