Smile, they were RUDE, RUDE AND MORE RUDE. I have to admit my friends have never commented negatively on what I serve. Maybe it's because we know each other so well that we unconsciously make what everyone likes! Still, they would never hurt my feeling, nor would I hurt theirs. I know what it takes to make quiches and prepare a salad and dessert. You were very thoughtful with the caffeine free tea and fruit. And, I bet the table was set to perfection. I think you covered all bases. As far as the discussion of their illnesses, that usually comes with the 70 and 80 year olds according to my Mom! Are these your good friends, or just gals from a club you belong to? Next time invite the boomers on this website. We can sign up...first come first served!