Well, Anne, I guess, so much for my theory...or my father's theory. It's never good to generalize anyway. I suppose if you have unfinished business it's harder to go, or if you have a guilty conscience; that may make you fearfull. Whatever. I chose to believe in God, and believe peace is on the other side. Amen to that.
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As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.
Goethe