Doesn't mean one can't pursue a dream, Mustang. At this stage in life, one just has to take the dream and make it flexible as possible and manageable for oneself so that you can move with modifying the dream along the way, when unexpected circumstances in life arise. And to make it psychologically painfree as possible, as one moves through different life transitions..

And one must be hardball in terms planning for the long term financing side for the next 20-30 years and physical capacity to help oneself especially if one is single and no immediate family/close friends to help.

I have to think this way myself also...since my partner is 16 yrs. older than I and my entire family lives in another province.



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