Lola, I am so grateful you weighed in on this. I do have a situation regarding my grandmother, who died at 102 in March. I cannot afford an estate attorney. And I don't know if I am holding in my hands a can of worms, or even, Pandora's box. Plus, can a will have outdated language? Or a trust document? Would you be willing to do a bit of PM on this with me? If so, I'll have the papers in my hand to ask you a general question or two, so as not to impose on you.
Family secrets suck.