thanks dots and yea its getting used to stuff we have no control over and ending up recociling ourselfs to the facts, not headbutting the fact to makle them fit our world view.

as for being humaine yea somedays i get a little less garded, normalie when i moved a bit or my defenses or dowen and then its about expresing it, as is.

i have a big edit in my head.

I didn't know your child was medicated i glade it did help her and after we try some refomulating of some home boundries (pen paper action plan at ready) and try ths behaviourists we see if he will still be considered for meds.

Dotsie i ask my doc what about and he refares my question back to his peadtrision and she ask/say about it. my doc a bit whimpie sometimes.

if when it comes to meds i see what options i can have for second oppinions.

poppie certinly thinks hes over the threashold and needs it. hmmm knew i should't let her in my house that last visite lol. (jking)