I'm starting a new thread on this because it's been discussed in a few other threads. I thought it would be helpful to myself and others if we could consolidate the information in one thread. I'm going to post some links, both to other websites and to other related posts here on BWS.

Feel free to add info, share experiences (maybe cut and paste from other discusstions), ask questions, etc. I'm not the expert, I'm just learning about this myself.
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