I realized after posting my thoughts, that I did set out one goal after Gary died, and that was to travel as much as possible...there were so many places he wanted to see, but never made it anywhere. There is a whole world out there that I've always wanted to see, and we decided that we're not waiting anymore, we're making it happen now. So we're doing our third "big trip" (still using some of Gary's money) next month - Italy, Spain, Portugal and Morocco (Africa has been on my list since I was a child...Morocco is only one small corner, but it's still Africa - a lifelong dream coming true!)

So I guess I'm not quite as goal-less as I thought!
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When you don't like a thing, change it.
If you can't change it, change the way you think about it.

(Maya Angelou)