Danita, if I may offer some advice. NO matter what else occurs keep your love strong for and with your son. He is merely 16 and under his fathers self pity bull sh// right now. Be sweeter than ever to him, the son, no matter what, and eventually he will not only remember what you always were but what you still are and he will come back to you with love, sorrow for straying and admration. Boys are usually momma's boys anyway.
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