My parents are in their 80's -- still very healthy and active -- but still in their 80's. My sister lives in Omaha and my brother in Montana --and that leaves me here to see to them when they do feel they need help -- and the day may come very soon that they will need total care.

Is there a time line where you become to old to have new adventures -- new experiences -- a time where you can't choose to start over?

Have I crossed that line where my future now lies in my past? How do you decide between mother and child -- and child and mother.

Bottom line is -- do I follow my child -- or stay with my parents.

I don't mean to be vague -- Just going to be another sleepless night I guess [Smile]