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#19988 - 05/12/04 08:17 PM Taming the menopausal beast
Betty-boop Offline
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Registered: 03/30/04
Posts: 64
Loc: Utah
About six months ago, I started getting night sweats and getting up six-eight times during the night either to go to bathroom or with an anxious feeling. The doctor put me on HRT and water pills. This helped some. A few months later, she put me on a diet and I've lost some weight, plus I did an attitude adjustment. At the time all this was happening, I was drowning in self-pity for things. I finally put my foot down and started making changes in my life mentally and physically.

Today, I sleep soundly, I don't take any medications and I am happy. I have stepped out of my comfort zone and made myself do things that normally I was too shy or self-conscious to do. I am loving this year for the first time in a long time. I don't know if I was experiencing menopause, the doctor said my blood work showed I was, but If so, It is either over or hibernating.

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#19989 - 05/12/04 08:57 PM Re: Taming the menopausal beast
Dotsie Offline
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Registered: 07/09/08
Posts: 23647
Loc: Maryland
Betyy, I love hearing stoires of women taking charge at mid-life. I say we can either give in to falling apart, or stand up straight, keep our heads on straight, and march forward while aging gracefully!

You go girl.

Thanks for sharing. I think your story may inspire others!

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#19990 - 07/28/04 04:54 PM Re: Taming the menopausal beast
Stormy Offline
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Registered: 07/03/04
Posts: 27
Loc: Manchester, NH
quote:
Originally posted by Betty-boop:
About six months ago, I started getting night sweats and getting up six-eight times during the night either to go to bathroom or with an anxious feeling. The doctor put me on HRT and water pills. This helped some. A few months later, she put me on a diet and I've lost some weight, plus I did an attitude adjustment. At the time all this was happening, I was drowning in self-pity for things. I finally put my foot down and started making changes in my life mentally and physically.

Today, I sleep soundly, I don't take any medications and I am happy. I have stepped out of my comfort zone and made myself do things that normally I was too shy or self-conscious to do. I am loving this year for the first time in a long time. I don't know if I was experiencing menopause, the doctor said my blood work showed I was, but If so, It is either over or hibernating.

Hi..I just found this board. I hope you don't mind me jumping in here but since I've been there, done that..waiting for the t-shirt. I found a wonderful book, well worth the price!!
(I don't usually recommend books on a non-book forum). The name of the book is "The Change of Life Diet and Cookbook" by Elaine Magee. I'm not sure which I dislike worse..Dieting or Cooking but even I can follow this. [Smile] In her book, you'll find ways to help you with night sweats, hot flashes, libido, osteoporosis..

One chapter that's really a hoot is "What Was I Saying? I Must Be Having One of Those Menopause Moments." Elaine follows up with foods that will boost your brain power.

How about "Hot Flash Mocha-chino" or "Frozen Fruit Freeze?" How about "Banana Coffee Cake with Chocolate Chip Stuesel?"

Hope this helps [Embarrassed]

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#19991 - 07/29/04 01:10 AM Re: Taming the menopausal beast
Toni Offline
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Registered: 12/11/03
Posts: 504
Loc: Pennsylvania
This is another subject I can relate to and it is an interesting and controversial one.

When menopause began for me, I knew soon that that's what was going on. For awhile, 1-2 years the night sweats, the nervousness and such really disrupted my life and my husband's.

Later, when I started taking HRT, my life totally changed. I felt better, wanted to do more and as you mentioned my attitde got much more positive.

I am so glad that you brought this subject up. In most cases, unless there is a heredity factor or a serious health concern, women can choose to do just about anything they want to. It's a wonderful feeling to know that the 'doors' of life have not been closed; so much of life is waiting just for you!

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#19992 - 07/29/04 03:43 AM Re: Taming the menopausal beast
jawjaw Offline
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Registered: 07/02/03
Posts: 12025
Loc: Alabama
I ran out of hormone pills over a week ago and just decided not to get them refilled.

And it hasn't bothered me one dang bit...not one frigin' time...no siree...I'm so frigin' happy if I get any happier they'll have to clone me...now 'cuse me while I go get some more nails to chew on.
[Mad]
JJ

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#19993 - 07/29/04 03:48 AM Re: Taming the menopausal beast
smilinize Offline
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Registered: 11/08/03
Posts: 3512
Loc: outer space
JJ,
All I gotta' say is, Thank the lord I'm a thousand miles away. Halleleujah!
I hear a woman without her hormone pills is a danger to mankind.
I've never took 'em, but there's probably people who would pay me to take a few.
smile

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#19994 - 07/29/04 04:10 AM Re: Taming the menopausal beast
jawjaw Offline
Da Queen

Registered: 07/02/03
Posts: 12025
Loc: Alabama
Once when I was married to 1-800-Jerk, I ran out of hormone pills. He went to the pharmacy and got them refilled. When he came in the door I was sitting on the couch and he ran over, pour one out and handed it to me, then grabbed my shoes and pulled them off and put one in each shoe...I looked at him like he had lost his ever loving mind...He said, "it can't hurt. Now here, put one in each side of your bra."

He's no longer with us....

JJ

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#19995 - 07/29/04 05:55 PM Re: Taming the menopausal beast
Dianne Offline
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Registered: 05/24/04
Posts: 6123
Loc: Arizona
I went off HRT after hearing about the dangers or warnings and should be just about finished with menopause anyway. (They call it menopause because it makes men pause and say, Ohhh).

I started vitamin therapy. E helps with the night sweats, flaxseed oil helps everything!, fish oil and niacin help cholesterol levels and primrose evening oil is supposed to help with water retention, etc. (can't take it as it gives me really strange dreams).

I also started using the South Beach Diet. I've lost 14 lbs. and have so much energy. I feel better than I've felt in years and I'm looking pretty darn good too! [Big Grin]

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#19996 - 07/29/04 06:52 PM Re: Taming the menopausal beast
jawjaw Offline
Da Queen

Registered: 07/02/03
Posts: 12025
Loc: Alabama
Wow Dianne...that's great. Tell me what you think the difference is between the South Beach Diet and Atkins. Or maybe pros and cons between the two?

I haven't started any vits yet, but know I need to. I haven't taken anything. How DOES one tell if they are finished with menopause? SMILES...you're the nurse, can you help?

JJ

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#19997 - 07/29/04 10:36 PM Re: Taming the menopausal beast
Dotsie Offline
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Registered: 07/09/08
Posts: 23647
Loc: Maryland
jawjaw, when did you get rid of 1-800-jerk? You're hysterical! Did your boobs grow or didn't you let him get that far? [Razz]

I learned that when you haven't had a period(lovely) for one year you can consider yourself done!

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