Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience...

Posted by: foundhervoice-atlast

Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 04/15/06 09:31 PM

Dear Boomerwomen,

As some of you know, I am writing a book about divorce and have been in the process of compiling personal stories since last summer. I have been advised to put it on hold until my own divorce is final, even though I have been asked to submit a formal book proposal to a well-known agent/publisher. My book is about how to help women avoid some of the pitfalls many of us have encountered in the course of our marriages/relationships, and what to do if we find ourselves heading toward divorce. It is not a male bashing book...rather, a positive, forward-looking how-to book, with humor interjected to lighten up the tone, prove that there is a light at the end of this dark tunnel and give women some much needed encouragement and perspective.

If any of you would be interested in contributing your personal story to this book please send me a private posting through the website. I guarantee total confidentiality and will work with you to make sure your voice is heard in a way that makes you comfortable. If you think you have had an experience that will benefit other women to know about and learn from, I hope you will consider being a part of this project.

Blessings on us all!

foundhervoice-atlast

"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. It's the way you decide to arrange your mind..."
Posted by: Dotsie

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 04/17/06 03:53 AM

foundhervoice, please send me a Call for Submissions and I'll put in in the May/June BWS newsletter for you.

I forget to tell you...I love your quote. I agree wholeheartedly.
Posted by: foundhervoice-atlast

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 04/17/06 07:17 AM

Dotsie,

I tried sending you a private message by got an error message saying your box was full...How do I send you a call for submissions? (Please forgive my ignorance!)

foundhervoice-atlast
Posted by: Dotsie

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 04/18/06 04:41 AM

Please send it to
dots@boomerwomenspeak.com

Thanks. I am working on the May/June BWS newsletter this week.
Posted by: Songbird

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 04/27/06 08:26 AM

Dear Found... I love your quote too- Cause I believe it!
Posted by: foundhervoice-atlast

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 04/28/06 10:31 AM

Yup. I believe it with all my heart, too. Sometimes it's just gotta be a mind over matter thing doesn't it?

Another one I really like is "You cannot solve a problem with the same mind that created it." That has reminded me on more than one occassion to go out and get a little smarter, broaden my horizons before going back in and trying to solve the same problem again, but from a new perspective...

Foundhervoice-atlast
Posted by: Dotsie

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 04/29/06 07:22 AM

ah, that really makes me think. I like it. A always opportunities to strengthen the mind.
Posted by: Joni22

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 05/16/06 12:11 PM

Please pick up a copy of Joni Newman's book on divorce for jilted women. It is filled with humor, my stories, help for women who think that the light at the end of the tunnel is the train speeding down the track in her direction.

Joni Newman takes you through the five stages of grief and through humor and intimate stories, you will feel like she is holding your hand and walking you through the process...to becomming your own woman...and acceptance.

You can get her humorous book on divorce (divorce...humorous?)at: www.pwllb.org where you will get a personally signed book or at www.xlibris.com/DidHeSayDivorce.html for a discounted price.
Posted by: chatty lady

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 05/17/06 04:41 AM

Joni why not go to the welcome thread and tell us a little about youself, besides that you have a book to sell. Sounds interesting!
Posted by: Joni22

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 05/18/06 01:46 PM

Sure, I would like to do that. Can you please give me directions? I'm new in town. Joni
Posted by: Dotsie

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 05/18/06 08:29 PM

Look at the top of the forum hoe page and you will see a Welcome forum. Post there and tell us more.
Posted by: Joni22

Re: Looking for stories about what you learned from your divorce experience... - 05/19/06 01:25 PM

Thank you! I will do that! Joni