finish education

Posted by: MSInvestigator

finish education - 04/19/06 08:52 AM

How many women our age go back and finish their formal education? Well I am thinking seriously of doing just that I need 12 hours for my Ph.d in health care mediation and then I will be able to sit for the boards. It is the last leg and I just feel like I want to do this for me... Am I middle age crazy or what??? My dissertation is almost finished, the research segment anyway and I feel I could complete this.
Posted by: smilinize

Re: finish education - 04/19/06 09:25 AM

MsInvestigator,
I have been in a similar decision making process for a while. I can't seem to find even one logical reason to complete my PhD. I have no plan to use it at all. But for some reason I keep thinking about it.

I'm fairly certain I have lost my mind. But then if you found a mind, what would you do with it? --- Finish a PhD??

smile
Posted by: MSInvestigator

Re: finish education - 04/19/06 10:07 PM

Smilinize, yes, definately, go for it! A very wise woman just told me the other day, education is the ONLY thing we do strictly for ourselves, when we die it is the only thing we can take with us. I see this a very true.
Posted by: chatty lady

Re: finish education - 04/20/06 04:47 AM

Both of you should do this. Knowledge and credentials can always come in handy even if just for the pure satisfaction of knowing "you did it."
Posted by: Debi

Re: finish education - 04/21/06 12:40 AM

I agree with Chatty, Smilinize and MsInvestigator do what you feels right. I am also thinking of going back to school. A volunteer opportunaty has sparked a long lost disire I had and let slide under the table, that of teaching others how to read. I know I still dont understand some of the reasons so I want to go back and learn. So not to take the focus off you ladies. Learning is the best and most wonderful thing we can do for not only for us and our well being, but its the chance to say " I did it"

koodos for wanting tofinishing something you started.

Debi
Posted by: smilinize

Re: finish education - 04/21/06 02:01 AM

I hate to start things I don't finish. But doing a doctoral dissertation is a huge commitment and a ton of work . It can take years. I have a friend who wound up with a nervous breakdown from the stress. Many people fall apart under the constant scrutiny and criticism.

I don't know if I want to give that much of my time and self esteem to it. I'm supposed to talk to the director of a program near here next week. I think I want to do a musical about a story in English literature as my dissertation. A friend of mine got a deal sort of like that.

I'm sure they won't let me, but wouldn't that be fun and I would come out with something besides a pile of paper with a ton of useless research. If I can get the deal I want, I'll probably do it. Otherwise I'll forget it and just hang out on boomer. Either way will be fun.

smile
Posted by: chatty lady

Re: finish education - 04/25/06 01:38 AM

I think it takes a very special person to go back to school in her later years. The commitment must be agressive in order to withstand the stress's faced today. I personally would find it hard to listen to some of the junk spewed out by these young professors. What I need is a heavy duty computer course, building websites, now thats something I need in my everyday life....
Posted by: Eagle Heart

Re: finish education - 04/25/06 04:08 AM

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Originally posted by chatty lady:
What I need is a heavy duty computer course, building websites, now thats something I need in my everyday life....

Go for it Chatty! That kind of course would probably be more fun than work for you...building websites brings out the creativity when you know what to do and have the right tools to build with.

I went back to college to become a computer network administrator when I was 41. After working and being on my own for over 20 years, it was both invigorating and difficult. The thing I found most difficult was giving up so much of my evenings and weekends to studying and doing homework! That was brutal. But what a sense of achievement!

Chatty, have you looked into taking a web-building course in your area? I would think that you would find it immensely satisfying and suspect that you would especially excel at the creative aspect of it.
Posted by: Dotsie

Re: finish education - 04/25/06 06:20 AM

Eagle, a couple of my middle-aged friends are back in school. I'd have to say that it is invigorating for them to be around the younger students. It has helped give them a better understanding of their own children. Plus, it's been good fro their self-esteem becasue they are doing so well academically.
Posted by: Mountain Ash

Re: finish education - 04/26/06 07:57 AM

I was an adult returner to education. I gained Diplomas in health and social welfare and counselling in my forties then A BSc in the May of my fiftieth year..
I enjoyed all my studies met wonderful fellow students and tutors.However just out of interest I did a short course "Understanding Sprituallity in Health and Care Setting" where the content of the course was geared on what is often missing..The Spritual.
I would recommend returning to studies to anyone who is interested.
Mountain Ash
Posted by: chatty lady

Re: finish education - 04/26/06 01:57 AM

Not yet Eagle but I am looking into it. I know I'd love it because I was a champ at putting together very catchy ads for my newspaper advertisers when I was selling space. I don't mind long hours and am at my most creative at night for some reason, some call me Batty!!! Maybe their right, LOL and thank you dear friend for those lovely words. HEY whatever happened to Ellard? That was the most publishable manuscript I've reviewed lately, go for it.

[ April 25, 2006, 06:58 PM: Message edited by: chatty lady ]
Posted by: Eagle Heart

Re: finish education - 04/26/06 02:54 AM

Thanks Chatty. I've sent Ellard out to a few publishers so far, and all have sent it back. So I'm researching who else to send it to. It's very difficult to find publishers who are accepting new authors. But I haven't given up...just taking a brief break from the rejection notes.
Posted by: jawjaw

Re: finish education - 04/27/06 12:54 AM

I went back to school in the 80's and finished my degree and I've NEVER regretted it. It wasn't easy raising two kids, working all day, going to school all night. And weekends. But it allowed me to finish in less than two years. There is NO age barrier when returning to school and I found the professors to be open and understanding when I would have to miss a class because of a sick child, my workload, whatever. They were family people too.

So I encourage anybody to go if you are doing it for YOU. That was exactly why I did it. Exactly!
The one thing I found out by returning to school was how much I didn't know and how much more there was to learn. It was wonderful!

JJ
Posted by: chatty lady

Re: finish education - 04/27/06 05:04 AM

I have taken so many home study courses and still continue my education as my mind thirsts for more and more knowledge. I have the best library and when finished donate the books to others to enlighten them as well. I love learning and now teaching as well....