If you think patriotism is for the old, read this.

Posted by: Lavinia

If you think patriotism is for the old, read this. - 07/06/08 11:02 PM

There are so many places I could post this. I went 'round and 'round trying to decide. I don't see a place to post about a blog post. Does that make any sense at all? Oh well. Anyway- I posted on my blog, an amazing set of circumstances that occured on the 4th of July and I would LOVE to know what baby-boomers like me think of the story.

It involves my father, who is a WWII veteran, and four little boys. If you think you need to wait until your kids are older to teach them about patriotism, think again. You will be amazed (and might even shed a tear or two, like I did) at what this young father did.

Anyway-you can find it here. I'd love to know what my fellow baby-boomers think! Thanks. ~Karen
Posted by: Dancing Dolphin

Re: If you think patriotism is for the old, read this. - 07/07/08 01:31 PM

That's a wonderful story, thanks for sharing. I love it when people take the time to help their kids learn important things like that - fantastic!

Kathy
Posted by: Dotsie

Re: If you think patriotism is for the old, read this. - 07/07/08 06:33 PM

Thanks for sharing. That's sweet. I hope none of his fourr sons ever have to serve.

I need to get up the guts to talk to people in uniform whwn I see them. It's usually at the airport andI feel like I'd be intruding. Any suggestions on how to approach.
Posted by: chatty lady

Re: If you think patriotism is for the old, read this. - 07/07/08 09:51 PM

Lavinia, there are no wrong places to post something like this. What a lovely story, thanks for sharing it. You have an impressive blog, no nonsence just good reading...
Posted by: Lavinia

Re: If you think patriotism is for the old, read this. - 07/08/08 10:19 PM

Thank you Chatty-That's a real compliment. I've had advice from other bloggers and my blog has, I hope, come a long way. One thing I try to do is not require the reader to click down a page more than three times to read one post. That forces me to say only what is important. I recently increased the font size to accomodate any visually impaired folks who might drop by.

Dancing- Me too.

Dotsie- It's funny you should ask that particular question. It's one I think I should address on my blog at some point. It took my father more than 50 years to start wearing a cap that identifies him as being a vet. Many Vietnam vets have been doing that for a long time. But from what I've read, it's so that they can identify each other.

My nephew is getting ready to go back for a second tour in Iraq. I was telling him the story on my blog and he brought new light to it. He said that when he got back from Iraq, he was disturbed by people approaching him all the time, even if it was to thank him. Family and close friends were one thing, but strangers were something else. You see, in Iraq, stranger was synonymous with enemy, no matter what the stranger looked like, what age, or sex they were etc. Our troops are trained to not get too close.

Also, he recounted a story of a soldier who returned from Iraq who was asked at a gas station, as he filled up his tank, "Were you in Iraq?" When he said yes, he was brutally beaten and died of his injuries. It's unfathomable. So my advice would be to pray, if you're a praying person. Seek wisdom. Then find a way to say thank you. Most WWII vets, in my experience are happy to talk to you and pleased when they are thanked (going home to tell their families about it). Given what my nephew said, I would probably use the words, "Thank you..." first thing, instead of asking if they were in Iraq. We don't want to do or say anything that might feel threatening. That training to keep strangers away kept them alive and it's not easily unlearned.

Not long ago, a man anonymously paid for mine and my father's breakfast. You could do the same. Buy a meal, groceries or whatever. You could also write a note and hand it to them, or to the waitress to pass on or whatever. The point is to recognize that freedom isn't free.

Thanks for visiting my blog. I so wanted to share the story with whomever I could. ~Karen