The Art of Conscience Loving

OK ladies,

I'm going to steam it up here a bit. LOL

This is a "sensitive" subject -- but I think the info is too good not to share.

I am NOT going to type the word that represents this information - but will guide you to looking it up and finding it. I'm afraid if I post "the word"..that boomerwomenspeak will be googled and become a "clearing house" for people with "alternative intimate ideas". LOL

There is a new consciencness in America - which is actually an ancient Indian art form. There is a couple whose names are:
charles and caroline muir who have put together a VERY tasteful program - that would guide a couple through learning these exercises. (google them, then go to the website named source_ _ _ _ _ _). (again, not posting the word...but it starts with a "t") (am I killing any of you yet).

The premise of this "artform" is to help couples connect on a physical AND spiritual level in their intimate times. (it is a tad bit "new-agey", but I definitly see how it could benefit anyone)!

The other thing I find intriguing about it is - it helps women in particular, who have been abused or molested, to re-connect their mind and bodies.

I had a great "intimate life" (don't want to use the "s" word) when I was married - but I also was somewhat emotionally disconnected from it because of my past(if that makes any sense).

Life is too short to be a dress rehersal - I think this art form could be very pivotal in helping couples and women heal and connect on a new level. (this would also help couples who can't actually be "intimate" on physical levels - to connect spiritually).

If you have any questions - feel free to PM me.

I Did purchase the "learn at home kit" from the "source _ _ _ _ _ _" website - and was very impressed with how tastefully it all was put toghether, and re-inerated in differenct forms (book, audio, AND DVD).

Again,

Feel free to pm me with questions - I will answer them if I can.

DAnita

we didn't have the luxury of the learn at home kit but it's still fun....I used the "T" word and didn't think it show up in a google search. ooops hope you have fun and keep breathing lol

Celtic Posted that...not me Danita

Popea

great your living learning and wanting to share your experinces with us danita...i give the web page a wee try..see whats happening...

celtic

Ladies, Danita was kind enough to run this by me before posting. I hope this information is helpful. May God bless us in our intimacies.

I always assomed america was very familare with this as a theripy and a spiritule philosiphy and a good passtime lol, gess i was wrong.

It certinly rearanges the concept of lovmaking with a big emphasis on the love and the divinity within your partner. Puts a whole new light on things, dosent it. I recomend it to anyone and everyone as its full of care and respect and tenderness and sometimes thats missing in our most sacred privat of acts. Their you even got me scared of using the t word and the ex word with a silent S hehehe just incase we are googled...Mind you that might be a goodsend to some wee ladie.

Have you done the home weekend studie. What did you think of it? what was especially good about it? was their anything that had you embarrised or too uncomphortable with it?

celtic

I was surprised to find out what the secret "T" word was. Is it a bad word? A bad thought? Is there something wrong with LOVE?

No, not at all. Danita was just trying to keep this site from being attacked by anyone doing major "searches" and googling certain KEY WORDS and ending up here sharing their "alternate" as she calls it, methods.............get it?

I've been researching the t word and it seems that it is like the guys who masturbate while hanging themselves and eventually asphixiate. Both practices try very hard to achieve a better sexual experience...sort of another worldly experience.

Its not that hard to get...just a bottle of wine..some Al Green...desire for your husband and wife, and some candles...a great steak dinner and a cigar afterwards...nothing better...geeze, I could make a fortune.

Danita, we talking about T- For- Two here?

Sort of, right?

Looked it up and read some. Can't help but say Hubby and I would probably fall into giggling fits. Call us old fashioned, but when the urge comes there's no holding us back. The "T" is too much like following a complicated cook book recipe for me.

Exactly! If my hubby and I started going into some sort of chanting, touching dialogue, we'd probably laugh so hard it would just ...not happen.

When we come together...its a spiritual thing anyway. Just call me unenlightened...where's my cigar?

i was enjoying the fun over the T word and like yourself dind't think their be a trouble using it thought you were all just being coy....i have used it omg i left you vulrible to the googlers lol.

now ladies do you think danitas gonna chat about this openly in this colum now, if that was ever her intension?lol.....perhapps pm was a good idea afterall.

I am still defending it as a practice, it's lovilie and dose no one any harm.....and no its nuthing like anyone hanging themselfs,... for those reasons given... that example is missleading as to the practice and intension of what this T is about, so i don't know weer your research been done...but hay thats just your oppinion, i know, i know....
its a pitie you had to pick a reallie strange pervers practice, trying to taint(or tie in)T with the same brush when everyone else is having fun and just saying its not quite for them and leaving it at that. Ah well people will be people...

As a method of healing and reconecting mind, hart, bodie and sex u ality. For most people that are fragmented but especillie those that been aboused in adulthood and childhood....there very little to aid thes people in that area who have developed dissasotion from their bodies when having sex.

anyway regardless of what whats have fun and enjoy explorring this danita. And what a brave post to start.

celtic

"T- for two"....I'm rofpmp!

This is definitly not for everybody....and chanting isn't even a big part of it....it's more connectIting on a spiritual level. I find it to be VERY beautiful, VERY healing.


One of the things they said in the book that I loved that "T" living is a commitment to living a life of peace and harmony. They suggest when you have a disagreement with your loved one, that you go lay down (spoon position) breath toghether, and re-connect. The suggest actually that a couple do this "connecting exercise" twice a day. A.m. before getting up, and at night. It also would include for me a prayer time with my partner (chanting for those who communicate that way).

No Celtic, you are right - lol, I have NO intention of sharing my personal experiences on the WORLD wide WEB. LOL. Think of how the men would be beating down the doors.

love and peace!

danita

I get the idea, but it still seems like wanting a cheeseburger real bad, so you take one home with you, you remove the sesame seed bun and slowly lick the cheese from the juicy tender pattie, then you tenderly pull each moist carefully sliced strip of lettuce which is sticking to the sauce away so that you may then open your mouth and taste it slowly appreciatively with your tongue. You might then bite into each tomato wedge and let the sweet juice trickle down your throat while enjoying the tartness of the pickle. You think of the cheeseburger and visualize it in your mind. You imagine yourself being a cheeseburger...

You then worship the cheeseburger because you are one with it, the cheeseburger and you because now you have eaten it and it will remain a significant part of your thighs forever.

Actually I have done that very thing with an oreo cookie more than once! And, I bet, that JJ has too. Right girl?

D and I spoon all the time. Even when we are angry with one another. I believe it keeps us connected on a very different level. I like what I read at this site and will go back and check out more.

I can see where it is not for everyone. Thank God we all like different things.

Are you kidding...JJ couldn't take that long with an Oreo! What...get me out of the moat...I have something to say...blurb...blurb...

Anyway, I saw this quote this morning and thought about this post...

"The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living that suits all cases." Carl Jung, Psychologist

We all come from different places...the important thing is to find what works for us and celebrate!

its 5 am i could not sleep, poor wee me too soar.....and i listening to cookie talk how outragiouse and hows a girl to resist.
no oreo's heer po dint shop just custerd creams and digestives which might be the uk orea's....i go try a few and see.
Just to take janes advice custerd creams work for me so it be a celibratory few

just being sillie
celtic

Ohhhh, I forgot the meat patty!!! How could I?! That's the best part. I'm thinking McDonald's, or maybe Arby's? Has anyone seen my cigars??!!

I posted this topic becuz I believe there are women out there like myself who need healing in this area of life.

It's not about achieving a "better s-x life"...but about connecting on a different level and healing.

I hope that anyone who feels "disconnected"...who is looking for a method to potentially heal....will feel free to PM me for more info about the website.

It's one of those things of "not throwing the baby away with the bath water".

danita

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I get the idea, but it still seems like wanting a cheeseburger real bad, so you take one home with you, you remove the sesame seed bun and slowly lick the cheese from the juicy tender pattie, then you tenderly pull each moist carefully sliced strip of lettuce which is sticking to the sauce away so that you may then open your mouth and taste it slowly appreciatively with your tongue. You might then bite into each tomato wedge and let the sweet juice trickle down your throat while enjoying the tartness of the pickle. You think of the cheeseburger and visualize it in your mind. You imagine yourself being a cheeseburger...

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I wonder if you realize, NL, exactly how erotic this writing is! whoo!

I've been interested in this topic (The T word) for a long time -- even had a book on it once, but never had the right partner. But I might look into it again now. :-))

And I love spooning -- hubby and I do it a lot -- until the hot flashes come and then I don't want anyone near me adding their body heat!