Dear Jordan's Grandma:
Sorry to hear that you're having so much pain in your hip. Do you have osteoarthritis? The good news is that hip replacement is extremely successful, especially the first time round.
I needed my hip replaced at the age of 47 because it was badly damaged in a car accident when I was hit by a drunk driver. I waited until age 50, partly because I felt too young for the operation and doctors weren't keen on doing it, and then latterly because I went on an 18 month wait list here in Canada.
Recovery times are very individual and variable. My recovery took longer than most people's but I feel really excellent now two years after the surgery. My big complaint is that I have an inoperable problem in my knee which restricts my activities; otherwise, the hip is great. No problems there.
I agree with Sera that it can be a lot of work for your spouse if you go directly home from the hospital. I was kept in the rehab unit of the hospital for some time and that helped considerably.
What stage are you at now? Have you seen an orthopedist? Is he recommending a THR? How long would you have to wait and what are your feelings on the subject? You're young. Could you be a candidate for hip resurfacing or alternate implants like metal on metal or ceramic?
Feel free to send me a private message by just clicking on my name and I'll give you my e-mail address. I get so much spam mail that I don't want to put it up here on the board.
As Eagle Heart said, I've written a book on the topic called Getting Hip. I wrote about my own experience and interviewed 10 other people around the world. I also have a web site called Sigrid's Recovery at
www.sigridsrecovery.blogspot.com.Good luck! Sigrid