Foundher...I just witnessed a terrible divorce between friends recently...my girlfriend was getting beaten down horribly in the beginning of the process...and her attorney, although he has a great reputation, seemed a little too laid back during the actual meetings with her husband and his attorney...a little too much in agreement with the other side ...so she went out and found an equally reputable female attorney and boy did things start to happen in her favor after that...my girlfriend's remark after the first mediation with her new female attorney was.."I finally feel like someone has my back in all of this"...if you aren't feeling like your attorney is standing up for you...get a new one who will...and get one fast...you have way too much to lose in this process...You and your kids are in my prayers...