I don't completely understand all the medical issues surrounding sex in later life, but I'm 57 and have gone through different stages of sexual "interest".

My husband and I have many problems but sex isn't one of them. I find that desire wakes the 21 yr. old up in me. I respond just like I did when I was 18 but better because of the experience I've gained over the years.

So much of sex is in the mind. Frankly, my husband turns me on and wakes up all the primal desires a woman can have. Our sex is wild abandonment and completely satisfying. I know he has the blue pills but says that he no longer needs them with me.

Many times I come home with my bra or thongs in my purse..
Varying the places you enjoy eachother and the outfits or nothing you wear, the language you use, the toys you use, etc can make a big difference.

Sex is in the mind and heart and everything else seems to follow. My doctor is amazed at my interest in sex....then I see him at the local bar and wonder is he smirking or smiling????