Being a stepmom comes with a whole new set of dilemmas.

I'm with the other ladies here. Send something to let her know you're thinking of her and maybe a note that you will visit when things have calmed down a bit. Just so she knows you care.

I was always with my daughter when she gave birth but not with my DIL. I felt her mom needed to be there for her. I never wanted them to feel I was moving in on their time together. It's a tricky situation.