I believe it can be very difficult for women to tell their mate (sorry Celtic,:)) how to please them sexually. I was raised where sex was a taboo subject. Anything I learned, I learned without my parents input. Years of being taught to keep quiet about a topic is not easy to overcome.

D and I try very hard to keep a happy and satisfying relationship in every aspect. Yet, it still is sometimes a bit difficult for me to be completely open. And this is completely my issue, not his. But I am more and more open all of the time and he makes me happy, sexually, and encourages me to ask for what I want.