I've never had a problem expressing, verbally or physically, my sexual needs and/or desires to my husband. I've always felt, in a good relationship, a close relationship, intimacy is enhanced. My husband is the one person I trust with the complete knowledge of exactly who I am.

On the cheating thing...sometimes I think a man cheats for what he may feel is an 'all free' good time. After all, a marriage, a committed relationship means 'responsibility'. Possibly, a man may have the erroneous idea he can have free, irresponsible fun, with some woman who he believes won't expect diddly-squat from him, as to any other aspect of her life.
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Jeannine Schenewerk
www.intouchwithjeannine.com
[i]'It's never too late in Fiction-- or in Life to Revise.'
---Nancy Thayer