msdiana, wise post. I know this guy who said, "Even though the girl down the street might be one hot woman, once you get to know her, she has her own set of problems." In other words, don't cheat. It's not worth it in the end. You're just jumping into another ball of wax. And sometimes it's hotter and will burn you.

Danita, with all your gathered wisdom, I'm sure you'll pick a winner the second time around.
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