Hi Hannelore, thanks for responding and clarifying. And, I can't help but go off on a lecture re: CSA because it's my mission. But Chatty is right: offenders often blame the victim. My father used to pose me in seductive ways for pictures, then claim I was too sexy for my own good. I was only 3, 4, 5! What a set up for future abuse from him. Oh, and then he would take me to church, the Catholic church. Religion was very confusing for me.
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