Lynnie, thank you! For myself, my anger has clouded decisions. For instance, not knowing who to trust, and often times choosing the wrong situation or person, and mostly not trusting myself or instinct. Also, I thought moving or changing my climate would help, yet it only follows. Yes, this is a victim-blaming society where the victim suffers b/c the individual(s) at fault will not acknowledge their blame. Thank you for explaining, I hope this helps Dianne's daughter, too.