Good question. There have been times in my marriage when I felt like ending it. My husband has never been abusive in any way, it's just that our personalities have clashed many times. Sometimes he's been too controlling, sometimes I have.

I'm glad I stuck it out but I know in my heart that if I had been abused in any way, my love would die for him and I would definitely consider divorce.

Like Dotsie, I hate to see anyone in or out of this forum be mistreated. We all have a light inside of us, given to us by God. When we feel that light being extinguished, I believe it's time for some kind of action. (Just my opinion, for what it's worth.)

God Bless Always....