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Would you want to be married to you? Why and why not and what are you going to do about it?



Absolutely NOT. And I honestly cannot fathom why my husband has stayed with me - and still LOVES me - for the past 13 years, some of which have been very difficult.

It's his unwavering love and support which help me to want to grow into a better me, which hopefully makes me a better spouse. We both know that we're "works in progress" (as individuals and also as a couple), but I'm especially angst-ridden and that has caused lots of emotional roller-coasting in the past few years.

I do like myself a lot better now than, say, even 2 years ago, but still have a long way to go before I feel like I'm the loving person I yearn to be.


Edited by Eagle Heart (09/20/06 09:14 AM)
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