I too agree with Hannelore and Dianne. I would send a happy cheery email that you would love to be there to help with her dress or whatever she needs help with. PERIOD!! No more and no less. Leave it up to her to start any negative conversations but then stand your ground and remember, this to will eventually pass. I am still praying for you. I am praying for so many now that I have to do some in the morning, some in the afternoon and some at night.
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