Number5, if it helps, think of this. Archie Bunker used to call his wife a dingbat and it was obvious from watching that show, that she was wise, patient and loving. Maybe you can take that comment that your ex meant in a mean way and think of yourself as an Edith Bunker!! Everyone loved her. She stood up to Archie when she needed to and had lots of friends. She was a great mother and grandmother, just like you and she was a prayerful, Christian woman.

Oh...one more thing I just thought of. Your screename here is Number 5, which means HIS 5th wife. Maybe you should think about using a name that identifies yourself for who you are, that has nothing to do with him. You're beautiful!
((HUGS))

[ March 18, 2006, 04:53 PM: Message edited by: Bluebird ]