I was brought up and had no choice but to attend Catholic School. I love this site, and commend Dotsie for creating it, however, one thing that I personally can't handle is all the "religiousness" of the site. And that's just me. No put-down at all intended. But when people or women put up with horrific conditions and wait for God to handle it, I cannot for the life of me, explain how I feel. I think, women in situations as noted forget "God gave us a free will" He didn't say "throw it on me, and I'll handle it"...enough said.