I truly believe this next statement and have been critized for saying it many times yet it is my own personal belief....In this or any situation a person might sit quietly and ask themselves. What would Jesus do? This question if asked and answered honestly can help one make the right decision....Too often 'right' is not the consideration, 'convenince' is and that is wrong any way you look at it....But like Pattyann I have never been faced with this particular decision either but I do know the only answer for me.