Wow! When it lets loose, it really lets loose, doesn't it? I've read Julia Cameron, too. The 'Right to Write' first and then 'Vein of Gold'. Too bad they're the library's -- I had to give them back. LOL! RE: me & attorney's, I know I'll have to file for divorce some day. I know he's too cheap to hire one. NC is one of those "wonderful" 50/50 states. Truth is - he's gotten more than he deserved from me and I think if I have all the facts down, I can get a ruling for what's called Unequitable Distribution - meaning...you got yours dude, we're skipping 50/50 . Our relationship was always 90/10 - - maybe 80/20 when things were 'going good' that's what I meant.