Hi Dianne, no wonder you live across country in TN. Reckless driving seems to be a common characteristic amongst abusers. My father was a reckless driver, endangering his own children! And Todd was a reckless driver, "peeling rubber for emphasis." What immature behavior! How can these things be forgotten? The memories do serve to remind us how far we have come as survivors. You're so right about the intersections: they become more than cross-roads, they are landmarks of our prior lives.