As I have said before on this site; When in doubt, do nothing.... [Cool]
This could turn into a real family war if allowed to. It seems your husband and you are on the same united front together and thats good. It sounds like you have done all you can to be a good stepmom. G sounds like an irresponsible spoiled brat that doesn't have any thought for anyone but himself. Personally I would be glad if he never came around if he were my stepson. [Wink]