Kate, I must agree with Chatty, JJ and Eagle. He is married. That says it all.

Plus- [Cool] Each day is a new opportunity to grow, learn and thrive for the best. If we try to live in the past, we will never enjoy the present.

Try put yourself in his wife's shoes... Would you like the past disturbing your present [Eek!] ? In all things treat others as you'd like to be treated yourself [Smile] .

God bless you!