I've decided to call a "family meeting" and express my feelings about the upsetness that exists between my husband and our daughters. I don't know what he's thinking and feeling and I don't know what our girls are thinking and feeling. All I know is what I'm thinking and feeling.

I'm assuming that the situation bothers the rest of my family but maybe it doesn't. All I know is that I'm not responsible for anybody else's thoughts, feelings, and behavior except for my own.

My job is not to be the peacemaker even though it's so tempting to return to the ways of my childhood. [Wink]

I'll let you know what happens. Wish me luck.