Blue, you said,"But he is really good to me and I know he loves me and again, it's not like he goes anywhere so there isnt' physical cheating."

What he is doing is the same thing that happens to a child when they are not hit physically, but are verbally abused or neglected. The pain is the same and takes just as long to heal. If this man loves you as much as you say he does, he would not be on the computer having relationships with other women. He is manipulating you. He is being disrespectful of your feelings, and he IS cheating on you! Period!

[ June 19, 2005, 10:21 PM: Message edited by: wordcharmer ]