Oh I know I should probably keep my big mouth shut BUT here goes. He is a snake, a cheater and a user. You forgave him and took him back and he threw it back into your face. Oh boy this is all too famaliar and so idiotic. WHY do you stay with a man who insults you by being a rat then taking the heat off of himself by ragging on you for spying, what the hell is that? Don't stay married to this loser, cheat & coward. Get free no mattrer if its your 10th divorce. Why wait till he dumps you, he will you know! He is a waste of your love and your time, MOVE ON. Find someone better to appreciate you, don't waste one more moment living a lie...Good luck and God Bless, I know how hard this is for you.. [Mad]