Hi Dotsie, please don't feel funny about asking for help. This site has grown in popularity, and you have been doing so much work. I know it's fun and interesting work, but it's work all the same. We are so glad to be of assistance. It gives us a greater sense of commitment and participation. By the way, if anyone wants to take the topic of divorce from me, that would be okay. Not that I mind, it's just that I could give one up to someone else. And, keep in mind that I will be in Vermont to my writer's conference from August 9 to 17, so I'll need a substitute hall monitor! Love and Light, Lynn