Thanks Cathi, and all I was trying to say is "lets be mindful of others " because you and I both have been on this board long enough to KNOW that a few words misused, or a tad too heated, can lead to hurt feelings and people leaving...

Debates ARE healthy, and can be invigorating, no one is disputing this (no pun intended)... it was just a gentle, or maybe not so gentle reminder that we can and should be able to speak our minds, just don't demand that others explain their position if it is opposing your own.

That's all... and it was certainly NOT intended to spark another debate...

JJ