A democracy is just that. We vote for who we want and then accept the person who wins. It's a messy system at best, but it is good. I had friends who were of the Republican persuasion who were very upset with Clinton because they didn't agree with him either.
Pattyann, you are right. Mr. Bush is "forceful." He is consistently that way. His worldview is one of a hierarchy with a strong leader at the top who knows what's best. He believes in his view and acts on it.
The answer is to really get to know, understand and have discussions with those who voted for Mr. Bush. And, of course, to vote every time and every where.