oh one more thing ladies on a personal note, lesbianisum for me ain't about sex or sexule prefrences or sexule practices....It's just an ordinary life with the usule experiences and some less common one's too.

I openly disclose who my parner is becouse if i don't I am or it is assumed that I am hetrosexule and my partner is a man, in some strange way this feels like i am lying to you or anyone who knows me...Being truthfull is important to me

I freely disclose and have dun since I was in my 20's about my lifestyle, in social situasion, work, church or chaples, that's not in my mind pushing anything on people but being open and truthfull about who I am. As open as i am about anyother factor in my life...

I don't and will not support the sepritist movment within lesbianisum......I favour the unity movment, we are all one and it is only throw familuarity and common identificasion do we get the chance to see we all have thing's in common and not so common experiences, that we are all loved equally by the one god outside religious doctrinasion, which may be right for you and that is fine but runs countra to my lifestyle which is also fine in my eye's. I made my peace and my stance with my god and my religion a long time ago. On this point is don't need to be right in your eyes or version of faith but i do need to be right in my own eye's for my own peace of mind, i could't cope with living a life that i belived was sinfull or wrong in the working of the universe or in my god/ess, higher power's eyes.

Some religions say i am wrong and that i am a Sinner. In NI they protest loudly and aggresivly and i still respect their right to their view's becouse i understand them to be human and in their hart's their following their calling. Just my hart diffrent and has a diffrent calling in relashion to spiritule practice and choice of partner....

love you all

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