Sherri,
I am so sorry that it all seems to be going wrong at once
Yes take pictures of the kids and don't let anyone tell you it's just hair- yes it will grow back but a drunk with scissors and a squirming child is a dangerous situation
And our kids' problems- no matter their ages go to our hearts and unfortunately to our health
I don't know what to say about your doctor it seems sometimes those in the caring professions just burn out-I just hope you get your medications-I'll keep you in my thoughts