You know something? I was really smiling when I read all of the posts on this that practically hit the nail on the head.

Smile, I suspected that she may have had company as well. My son came in from Louisiana later on that evening and she wouldn't open the door for him either. Mind you, this young lady had just driven from Milwaukee to Louisiana just because she 'missed' my son so much, two weeks prior. Hmmm. My sister's speculation is that she is a drug user and didn't want me to know via the scent. I sure hope that it was a guy instead of drugs.

She opened the door for my son, finally. He was peeved but complied in order for my mother and aunt to visit with his baby. Once my mother left town, he discussed her behavior that included her NOT coming down the stairs to even speak to his grandmother and aunt, dissociated herself completely, didn't bother to even speak to us at the graduation.

My mother was very mature about it by telling her father, which lives with her now, that she'd never met his daughter before and to tell her to come down. She did.

We kept the baby the entire time and never bothered her for additional milk or pampers or clothes. My mother bought some beautiful outfits from Vegas with her and we just purchased the other stuff babies need.

Well, my son finally told her, after all of the celebration, that it was over and that he'd proceed to the courts to get visitation rights and even partial custody. Her craziness really came out then. My sister that lives beneath her called me to say that the woman was upstairs having some sorta fit, throwing things and screaming and whatever. Of course, since the baby was back upstairs with the deranged b-witch, he went up to see why/what was going on. She pulled a knife! He came back down while I was still on the phone with my sister very concerned, wanting his baby until she cooled down. Of course she refused. My sister suggested calling the police since she pulled the knife.

My son didn't want to because he feared them taking her to jail. Since he hadn't been ajudicated as the father yet, he didn't want to the baby released to anyone else. Just as he was explaining his position to my sister and I, there was a loud knock on the door. It was the police stating that Miss B-witch had claimed he hit her!

At this point, my sister was on the phone with me while my son explained to the police the situation. They wouldn't listen to reason and took him to jail! This was on Sunday so there was nothing we could do until he was processed the next day, or even as late as Tuesday.

This woman had lied! The DA contacted her that Monday and she admitted lying and my son was released. I wonder if the DA will press charges on her for lying? What if she would have kept her lie up?

It's going to be very hard to ignore what she's capable of and love and embrace her despite. My sister is considering giving her a 30-60 day notice to move. I sure would hate that because the whole purpose of renting to her (extremely discounted rate too) in the first place was to be able to be closer to the baby. But, in her fit of range, she stabbed the wall and a couple of other property damaging things.

Dotsie, my daughter graduates on the 11th of June. That was my sister's graduation. My mother is going to try to make it back for her first grand-daughter's graduation too. I can picture me running around with joy and happiness and thanking God. God knows it's been quite a struggle but with His help, both of my children are fine graduates. One in college and the other on the way. She's decided to attend Florida A&M vs Columbia. Well, our finances predicted most of that decision but she's happy since Florida was her first choice before her acceptance to Columbia anyway. I think I was sadder since I wanted her to attend the prestigious school.

[ May 25, 2005, 02:33 PM: Message edited by: Sugaree ]