Did this one a few times myself! First time, had a huge cake, all the trimmings and told everyone to go to or visit online a baby store that had a place in the town where the mommie-to-be lived and get a picture of the gift they were going to give. We had the hostess open envelopes that contained the pic and the money for the gift and everyone could ooh and aah over it. Then we maiked the whole lot to the mommie-to-be.

Second time, we had the shower and collected cash or checks at the shower, then had the mommie-to-be let them know what she had gotten with it herself.

Third time, we had everyone bring their gift, and we had it UPS'd to the mommie-to-be in huge boxes.

Have lots of food and games and fun either way and everyone will be happy!!