I'm sorry I should've also included the fact that the man is given several chances to pay the support owed before they take away his driver's license.

Yes, I have also seen unfair cases in which a man is trying to do the right thing and the wife stuck it to him. In my experience though, it was the exception rather than the rule and the woman was left scrimping and trying to live from day to day. In several cases the father even refused to pay for much-needed dental care.