I was engaged to a guy years ago and discovered right before the wedding (thank God) that he had 2 additional children and an extra ex-wife that I didn't know about. He was paying child support, but totally neglected the children for the entire year I dated him. I called off the wedding immediately, of course. He thought I ended it because I just didn't want children in my life - wrong!- the true reason is that I couldn't be with someone who treated his kids that way. He had to be a sociopath to do that!

What is appalling to me is that women will have such a man in their lives. Don't they know that there is something seriously wrong with a man's character if he neglects his children?

Daisygirl