It amazes me that no matter what kind of a group one joins there always seems to be the leader and the followers. The Duck and the ducklings, the hen and the chicks. You dear Meredith are so strong in your nurturing nature that you are the leader and the others are happy and content to follow. Unfortunately life is to short and when someone or something is no longer worth messing with, move on. I would definitely tell that women to call you when she has something to contribute. As far as the friends you've made, keep them as friends and possibly turn them on to this new group....Hope it all works out.